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Does the the thought of getting up to dance in front of all your friends and family make you want to melt into the floor? Or perhaps you LOVE to have a boogie but your dance moves remind you of Elaine Benes rather than Fred Astaire.
What do you do????
Firstly and most importantly... Whilst originally the first dance was used as a expression of courtship and public recognition of the couples new union, many now take this moment as an opportunity for self-expression and enjoyment! That being said, if the thought of doing a first dance makes you uncomfortable then there is nothing to say that you MUST include one. It's your wedding you can do what you want!
A first dance doesn't have to be a fully choreographed performance piece if you don't want it to be. Keep things low-key with a shorter dance, maybe with one quick spin or a just a few slow steps to a song you love. Beautiful moments have been had with a gorgeous song and the newlyweds embracing and enjoying the music together.
What about some alternatives to the traditional first dance?
Group dance or flash mob
Yes it sounds cheesy... and it is! But it is SO much fun and a great way to set the tone for the night and engage your guests during this special moment.
Live music performance
Hate dancing but love music? Why not have a live band, solo musician or even special guest perform a meaningful song for you both? You can sit back, enjoy the music, maybe have a little impromptu dance if you like or just take in the performance together.
Special toast or speech
Scrap the dancing all together and express your feelings with a heartfelt toast or speech. This can be given by you, your partner, or a loved one.
Video montage
Create a video montage that showcases highlights of your relationship, including photos, videos, and messages from loved ones. Play it during your reception to share your story and create a touching moment that doesn’t require dancing.
Alternative symbolic ceremony
Want the symbolism and tradition of a first dance without the dancing? Why not try something like a sand or candle ceremony? This can be a meaningful way to celebrate your commitment and add a unique touch to your reception.
Memory lane walk
Create a "memory lane" at your reception with a display of photos and mementos from your relationship. Walk through it with your guests, sharing stories and special moments as you go.
Dinner dance
Instead of a dedicated first dance, incorporate music and dancing into the dining experience. Play your favorite songs during dinner and invite guests to join in for an informal dance session after the meal.
Private first dance
Make it all about you and have a private first dance at the end of the night once everyone else has gone. With all the hustle and bustle of the wedding day it can be hard to find a few moments to spend with each other and truly take in the whole experience. A dance in your beautiful reception space all alone might just be the thing you need to finish of a wonderful day.
There are endless ways to customise your wedding exactly how you like and the team at Tonic DJs is here to help you make your wedding dreams come true and are more than happy to chat through options and see what will work best for you as a couple.
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